Momwemonso, okwatirana omwe ali m'chikondi amagonana mwachikondi ndipo simungawachotsere, mumatha kumva chikondi kuchokera kutali ndipo ngakhale kanema amawonetsa bwino, ngakhale munjira yonyansa. Kujambula ndikwabwino kwambiri, anyamata amasewera bwino, zikuwonekeratu kuti amayesetsa momwe angathere, kukuwa, kubuula, zonse ndi zawo, ndimakonda momwe chilichonse chimaganiziridwa pano, ndikuwonera mosangalala.
Anapiye oyera amakonda kugonana ndi amuna akuda. Amakonda kuchititsa manyazi amuna awo ndikuseka mitu yawo yofiira. Sataya ngakhale makondomu ndi mvuto wa okondedwa awo kusonyeza kuti akunyenga mwamuna wake. Ayenera kudziwa kuti amamunyengerera ndi zakuda ndipo samayamikira machende ake. Bulu aliyense amawerengera kuchuluka kwa amuna omwe adakhalapo ndipo amanyadira kwambiri kugonana kwake ndi Afirika amphamvu.
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